Managing a team comes with its challenges. Having the occasional conflict or disagreement between colleagues is normal. It can be overcome with effective communication and management support and can lead to creativity and growth. But what happens if an employee persistently behaves with negative intent? What can you do when managing challenging behaviours at work effectively? To answer those questions, we need to consider what Psychologists refer to as “The Dark Triad”.
The Dark Triad is a term used to describe a trifecta of personality traits, namely Narcissism, Psychopathy and Machiavellianism.
Narcissism is typically characterised by an elevated sense of self-importance and grandiosity, often at the expense of others. Although a hint of narcissism is harmless, it may become a problem when a narcissistic person neglects the feelings of others. In the workplace, this may be displayed by taking credit for a colleague’s work or getting involved in bullying and harassment.
Psychopathy is usually demonstrated by a lack of empathy and general coldness in the way that they interact. People with this trait might display antisocial and manipulative tendencies in the workplace, however, such behaviours may be difficult to spot.
Machiavellianism is defined by deceit and manipulation. People with such tendencies are often ready to sacrifice personal relationships for power and money without any remorse.
Altogether, people who possess the Dark Triad traits may be described as domineering, manipulative and arrogant, which may affect their relationships with colleagues. Dealing with such personalities is a complex area and, there is no step-by-step guide of best practice. However, it is essential that you as a manager, feel prepared to address negative behaviour and manage it with care to maintain productivity and harmony within the team.
The first and most important step to take, if you notice problems within the team, is to identify where they stem from. Which team members seem more challenging to work with than others? Why might that be? Is anyone displaying behaviours that you find concerning, such as taking credit for other people’s work or manipulation? The key is to look for patterns of behaviour and not just isolated incidents.
Once you have identified the employee who is displaying challenging behaviour, it is time to address it. Make time for a private conversation with them and share your observations, doing so with care as you do not want to cause upset or make a difficult situation worse.
Remember unless you are qualified to do so, it is not helpful to use psychological terms. It is more helpful to explain how their behaviour affects the team in a calm manner and use specific examples. By doing so, you can work together with them to try and identify what might be triggering that negative behaviour. Is there a particular colleague they have difficulty relating to and do not enjoy working with? Are they put in situations that cause the challenging behaviour to emerge? As their manager, it might be in your power to resolve some of those issues. Although not every situation can be easily resolved, you can try and support your employees proactively.
Remember that however careful you are when approaching the situation, some people might not be open to discuss their behaviour or change their ways. Be prepared to stand your ground when challenged and meet demands and claims with strong counter-arguments. Being confident in dealing with conflict is an essential part of effective management. If you feel that you lack confidence in that area, there are different ways in which you can improve your skills, such as practising assertiveness or building your ‘people skills’, including emotional intelligence.
If you need support developing your skills in how to handle challenging conversations with your team or managing challenging employees effectively, please contact us and we will be happy to give you more information on the 1-1 coaching we provide to clients. We also offer tailored team workshops aimed at resolving team conflict and building collaboration. Get in touch with us here.
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